Entering the third phase of life gives Baby Boomers a wonderful opportunity to learn new things. When you retire from your full time work world you will likely learn new ways of living your daily life. Beyond that, you can explore new interests and go more deeply into ones you already have.
But, what do you feel when you attempt to learn something new in your retirement lifestyle? When you were immersed in your work, you may have felt very comfortable that you knew the lay of the land and how to function competently in that environment. When you did have to learn something new, the process may have been easy because of the support around you.
You can experience a whole new relationship with how you learn when you retire. Many of your life experiences will change, even the most mundane, daily ones. Be aware of what your responses are with each new learning experience. Do you resist doing things in a new way? Are you impatient when you have to learn something new? Do you avoid learning to do things in different ways altogether? What are some other responses you have to learning?
Four stages of learning
- Unconsciously incompetent – you don’t know that you don’t know how to do something.
- Consciously incompetent – you realize that you don’t know how to do something.
- Consciously competent – you take action to learn how to do something and do it with focused awareness.
- Unconsciously competent – you have learned how to do something so well that you have mastered it and it becomes second nature to you.
Your retirement lifestyle will be filled with opportunities for you to do new things and do things in new ways. Think back over some of the major learning experiences you have had in your life: Learning to ride a bicycle, learning to drive a car, adjusting to living with a new roommate, starting your first job. What common patterns do you see in your relationship to learning with those activities?
Learning with ease
- Be flexible and adaptable.
- Maintain an open and expanded state of mind.
- Be patient and compassionate with yourself.
- Have a lively curiosity and sense of inquiry.
- Be present in the moment with what is.
What will your relationship with learning be in your retirement lifestyle?
Janice Williams, Retirement Coach, www.welcomingretirement.com